There is absolutely no need to portray an appalling event of 7 December in such a light and link it to the so-called 'honour killings' argument, when even the police have never claimed this. It is difficult enough for the family, friends and acquaintances to cope with such a tragic loss, but journalists still salt over it. The family of the deceased woman, as the family-in-law, are not even strictly religious Muslims. But, very open-minded, integrated Dutch citizens. Tamiem Ashrafie (friend of fiancée)